and feeling guilty about it is not a good reason to suggest having a baby.
It really, really isn’t.
You are fifty, and I assume Ian is much the same; how will you feel when you are seventy and having to deal with the tail end of adolescence happening at you?
Just because your mother and stepfather are bringing up a child in his teens, that does not, not, not mean that you have to when you are their age.
Rather a heavy price for Adam to pay for his occasional strayings. A price that will be paid by the child too of course if Adam’s as luke-warm about the idea of having one as I think he is. I hope at least Adam gets a ‘paid in full’ receipt from Ian in writing and a promise never to bring up the subject of Pawel and Charlie again. Even so, blimey, what a terrible idea this is! And it appears to have come from Adam. What a master manipulator Ian is.
[quote=“Gus, post:8, topic:598, full:true”]
Is you sayin’ I rigged the voting?
[/quote]But of course. I saw the underhand way you snuck in an scenario that no right-thinking person could gainsay.